조직에서 말 잘듣고 인사잘하는 사람이 성장해서 리더가 되고나서 회사를 말아먹는 한국형 순환구조를 가진 회사들이 꽤 있다.
내가 본 거의 대부분의 조직이 이렇던데
1. 나한테 잘하는 거랑 2. 요즘 주목 받는 거랑 3. 실력 좋은 것, 이 세 가지를 구분할 줄 아는 사람이 잘 없음
1. 나한테 잘해준다고 그 사람이 조직에 도움이 되는 것은 아님. 2. 요즘 주목받고 소위 ‘힙한’ 건 한두계절 못감 지금 주목 받는 사람 데려다가 쓰면 이미 감각이 늦었음. 3. 나한테 잘하지도 않고 아직 주목 받지도 못했으나 실력이 있으면 일을 잘하고, 일을 잘하면 모두에게 도움이 됨.
일하는데 1을 중요시하면 일 말아먹기 딱 좋고, 2는 실력이 없는 거임. 남이 띄운 걸 가져다 쓴거라서 스스로 트렌드를 주도할 자신이 없다는 소리고 실제로 흐름을 못 읽음. 3은 일이 되게 하려는 사람한테만 보임. 쟤 싸가지 없고 나한테 적대적이거나 딱히 관심 없지만 일 잘하는 사람이랑 해야함.
정현 선수 나달과 경기하고 나서 경기가 잘 안 풀린 원인이 뭐라고 생각하는 기자의 질문에 “경기가 안 풀렸다기 보다는 톱 랭커들과 할 때는 뭐든지 쉽지 않다. 상대의 단점을 알고 있어도 실행에 옮기기 어렵기 때문” 이라고 말 했는데 나의 부족함을 인정하는 건 정말 큰 용기고 멋졌다.
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정현 선수 나달과 경기하고 나서 경기가 잘 안 풀린 원인이 뭐라고 생각하는 기자의 질문에 “경기가 안 풀렸다기 보다는 톱 랭커들과 할 때는 뭐든지 쉽지 않다. 상대의 단점을 알고 있어도 실행에 옮기기 어렵기 때문” 이라고 말 했는데 나의 부족함을 인정하는 건 정말 큰 용기고 멋졌다.
늘 현실은 생각하고 다른 것임을 또 한 번 깨닫지만 그래도 이번에 드는 생각은 내가 자기 전에 누워서 하는 생각이 현실이 되려면 정말 많은 사람의 도움이 필요하다는 것과 결과물로 가는 과정 중에 궤도가 조금 수정되어도 본래의 취지만 훼손되지 않는다면 일의 마무리를 꼭 한 번 지어보는 것이 좋겠다.
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현실은 생각과 다른 것임을 또 한 번 깨닫지만 내가 자기 전에 누워서 하는 생각이 현실이 되려면 정말 많은 사람의 도움이 필요하다는 것과 결과물로 가는 과정 중에 궤도가 조금 수정되어도 본래의 취지만 훼손되지 않는다면 일의 마무리를 꼭 한 번 지어보는 것이 좋겠다 pic.twitter.com/Y2qxxWsPAR
My dad left me for good a couple of days ago and his funeral was held this morning in Korea. But I am here in Paris to sing in front of you. I am not sure if this is appropriate. But as a singer I thought I should be here. Also I firmly believe my dad is happy to be watching me and you the audience from up above at this moment. Thank you for being with me today. I won’t forget this. I dedicate this recital to my dad. Now, I will sing Schubert’s Ave Maria for my dad.
Jimmy Kimmel: (02:03:15) In 1996, our next speaker faced an 18-year-old Kobe Bryant on the court for the first time. Midway through the game, while playing, Kobe asked him for tips on his jump shot. Kobe scored 33 points that game against his boyhood idol. Michael scored 36 and won the game, too. Please welcome Michael Jordan.
Michael Jordan: (02:04:09) I would say, “Good morning,” but it’s afternoon. I’m grateful to Vanessa and the Bryant family for the opportunity to speak today. I’m grateful to be here to honor Gigi and celebrate the gift that Kobe gave us all. What he accomplished as a basketball player, as a businessman and a storyteller and as a father.
Michael Jordan: (02:04:45) In the game of basketball, in life as a parent, Kobe left nothing in the tank. He left it all on the floor. Maybe it surprised people that Kobe and I were very close friends, but we were very close friends. Kobe was my dear friend. He was like a little brother.
Michael Jordan: (02:05:23) Everyone always wanted to talk about the comparisons between he and I. I just wanted to talk about Kobe. All of us have brothers, sisters, little brothers, little sisters who, for whatever reason, always tend to get in your stuff. Your closet, your shoes, everything. It was a nuisance, if I can say that word. But that nuisance turned into love over a period of time just because the admiration that they had for you as big brothers or big sisters.
Michael Jordan: (02:06:13) The questions, their wanting to know every little detail about life that they were about to embark on. He used to call me, text me 11:30, 2:30, 3:00 in the morning talking about post up moves, footwork, and sometimes the triangle. At first, it was an aggravation but then it turned into a certain passion.
Michael Jordan: (02:06:55) This kid had passion like you would never know. It’s amazing thing about passion. If you love something, if you have a strong passion for something, you would go to the extreme to try to understand or try to get it. Either ice cream, Cokes, hamburgers, whatever you have a love for. If you have to walk, you would go get it. If you have to beg someone, you would go get it. What Kobe Bryant was to me was the inspiration that someone truly cared about the way either I played the game or the way that he wanted to play the game. He wanted to be the best basketball player that he could be.
Michael Jordan: (02:07:47) And as I got to know him, I wanted to be the best big brother that I could be. To do that, you have to put up with the aggravation, the late night calls or the dumb questions. I took great pride as I got to know Kobe Bryant that he was just trying to be a better person, a better basketball player. We talked about business, we talked about family, we talked about everything. And he was just trying to be a better person.
Michael Jordan: (02:08:52) Now he’s got me, I’ll have to look at another crying meme for the next… I told my wife I wasn’t going to do this because I didn’t want to see that for the next three or four years. That is what Kobe Bryant does to me. I’m pretty sure Vanessa and his friends all can say the same thing. He knows how to get to you in a way that affects you personally. Even if he’s being a pain in the ass, you always had a sense of love for him and the way that he can bring out the best in you. And he did that for me.
Michael Jordan: (02:09:49) I remember maybe a couple of months ago, he sends me a text and he’s saying, “I’m trying to teach my daughter some moves and I don’t know what I was thinking or what I was working on. But what were you thinking about as you were growing up trying to work on your moves?” I said, “What age?” He says, “12.” I said, “12, I was trying to play baseball.” He sends me a text back saying, “Laughing my ass off.” And this was at 2:00 in the morning.
Michael Jordan: (02:10:41) But the thing about him was we could talk about anything that related to basketball, but we can talk about anything that related to life. And we, as we grew up in life, rarely have friends that we can have conversations like that. Well, it’s even rarer when you can grow up against adversaries and have conversations like that.
Michael Jordan: (02:11:08) I went and saw Phil Jackson in 1999 or maybe 2000, I don’t know. When Phil was here in LA and I walk in and Kobe’s sitting there. And I’m in a suit, the first thing Kobe said, “Did you bring your shoes?” No, I wasn’t thinking about playing. But his attitude to compete and play against someone he felt like he could enhance and improve his game with. Jimmy, that’s what I loved about the kid. Absolutely loved about the kid.
Michael Jordan: (02:11:46) No matter where he saw me, it was a challenge and I admired him because his passion, you rarely see someone who’s looking and trying to improve each and every day. And not just in sports, but as a parent, as a husband, I am inspired by what he’s done and what he shared with Vanessa and what he’s shared with his kids.
Michael Jordan: (02:12:13) I have a daughter who is 30, I just became a grandparent and I have two twins. I have twins at six. I can’t wait to get home to become a girl dad and to hug them and to see the love and the smiles that they bring to us as parents. He taught me that just by looking at this tonight, looking at how he responded and reacted with the people that he actually loved. These are the things that we will continue to learn from Kobe Bryant.
Michael Jordan: (02:12:52) To Vanessa, Natalia, Bianka, Capri, my wife and I will keep you close in our hearts and our prayers. We will always be here for you, always. I also want to offer our condolences and support to all the families affected by this enormous tragedy.
Michael Jordan: (02:13:14) Kobe gave every last ounce of himself to whatever he was doing after basketball, he showed a creative side to himself that I didn’t think any of us knew he had. In retirement, he seemed so happy. He found new passions and he continued to give back as a coach in his community.
Michael Jordan: (02:13:44) More importantly, he was an amazing dad, amazing husband who dedicated himself to his family and who loved his daughters with all his heart. Kobe never left anything on the court and I think that’s what he would want for us to do.
Michael Jordan: (02:14:09) No one knows how much time we have. That’s why we must live in the moment. We must enjoy the moment. We must reach and see and spend as much time as we can with our families and friends and the people that we absolutely love. To live in the moment means to enjoy each and every one that we come in contact with.
Michael Jordan: (02:14:37) When Kobe Bryant died, a piece of me died. And as I look in this arena and across the globe, a piece of you died, or else you wouldn’t be here. Those are the memories that we have to live with and we learn from. I promise you, from this day forward, I will live with the memories of knowing [inaudible 02:15:01] little brother that I tried to help in every way I could. Please rest in peace, little brother.